Update #2--Baby shower!

Friday, my friends Mindy, Kathryn, and Jenny, who I've known since college, all came in for my shower. We got the house ready, the shopping done, and some of the food ready, and we went out to dinner. We had so much fun!

Mindy hosted the shower, and it went great. We played games, ate great food, and oh my, I got a lot of gifts! I got the motherload of beautiful girly clothes plus more! Here are some pics.

Pretty decorations

How cute is that watermelon?!

My Rolling Pin cake!

Opening gifts Nate got to show off his walking

Look at all these clothes!!!!

Blankets and bibs and burp cloths! Plus a video monitor, sling, book, diapers ...

Our new stroller!

It was a really great party, and I was so grateful to everyone who came and for all the gifts. With Nate, there was so much going on and I was in Nashville for the last almost 10 weeks of my short pregnancy, and there was no opportunity for a shower. So it meant a lot to me to get to do all this normal baby stuff this time around. Thanks for a great party, Mindy!

Update #1--thesis defense

Lots to update on the last few days, including lots of pics, so I'll do this in a few posts. I'll start with last Wednesday. Nate had OT in the morning, then PT in the afternoon, then we had to go to Ohio. Well, of course Nate wouldn't take a nap between OT and PT--he was too excited. After 2 hours of him just laying in bed talking and singing, I went up to get him. He said, "Mama, I want to go to OHIO!!!" :) Of course, PT wasn't much fun with a whiny sleepy child, but we got through it and left. Okay, Athens, Ohio, is in the MIDDLE OF NOWHERE. I guess I forgot just how remote the place is. There's no good road to get there, and there's no radio station for miles around, and I didn't even get cell phone service for most of the trip. It was a miserable trip with a whiny kid. Then Nate had to sleep with me, and he likes to put his feet all over me. Georgia decided to do some jumping jacks around midnight. Anyway, none of us got much sleep. My mom met us there to help with Nate, thank goodness.

BUT the thesis defense went great! My committee was so excited about the project and just very complimentary of my work and my writing. It felt really good. We spent most of our time talking about ways to effectively implement the program, which didn't have anything to do with whether I passed or not. I did pass, and they did request a few additions/changes that are due by July 9. I think I'll get my diploma in August! Whoo! The drive home was much better, probably because I was smiling the whole time. :)

This morning, Nate was standing up on the recliner, then falling on his behind. He was saying, "Watch me, Mama! Watch this!" I know all kids learn this "watch me, mama" thing, but it just cracks me up that it's almost innate. Then when he was falling, he was saying "Weee!" and then "Can you say that, Mama?" Ha!!!

Nate is such a star at aquatic therapy. From the minute he walks in, the little old ladies are all over him, telling him how cute he is, watching him swim, encouraging him to kick his legs. :) Today he was such a ham--he kept swallowing water because he was too busy talking and laughing to close his mouth!

When we got home, Elizabeth was due to come over any minute. It started raining out, and the storm was so bad that the satelite went out. Nate said, "Ewizabef will fix it." Apparently this happened last time she was here, and he has far more faith in her to fix the tv than me. :)

If I don't update tomorrow, keep me in your thoughts. We're heading up to Ohio for me to defend my thesis on Thursday at 10am. Prayers appreciated!

Georgia update

I'm having doctor appointments every two weeks now, and I had one today. I'm 30 weeks and a few days pregnant now. I told my doctor that I had concerns about leaking amniotic fluid--she knows how paranoid I am because my water broke so early with Nate--so she did a test that came up negative for amniotic fluid. She also confirmed that I'm not dilated at all. And she sent me for an ultrasound to check for fluid! I love my doc!

So I got to see little Georgia, and she has plenty of fluid around her. (Normal is between 8-25, and she has 19.) The ultrasound tech said she's weighing about 3lb5oz now! I'm hoping she'll at least double that by July 31. It was nice to get a little peek at her and know she's still doing okay. Not that I don't feel her at all hours of the day!

Nate went to playgroup this morning, and his teacher said he danced the whole time he was there. So I think that says he's definitely feeling better! Blake asked him what he wants for his birthday (I'm truly at a loss for what to get him) and he thought about it and said ... "Presents." Thanks, that's helpful.

Finally feeling better!

That was a loooooong week of both me and Nate feeling awful. Besides the head and chest cold stuff, the worst part was that neither of us had any energy whatsoever. I had to cancel all of his therapy, we didn't go to soccer, and I'm so glad no one stopped by the house to see what a disaster area it had become. This morning, Nate slept until 10:30! I was starting to get really worried that he had pneumonia or something to make him so tired/lethargic. Then I was determined to get some housework done this morning, but I had to stop every couple of minutes to lay down so I didn't pass out! I was getting very frustrated with myself.

But by this afternoon, Nate was crawling around like a madman, talking my ear off. That's when I realized how little he had talked all week. The most he had said was a "yeah" if I asked him if he felt bad, or he would whine if he wanted something. So it was nice to hear him happy again today. He found a bug and followed it around for awhile, yelling "Buuuuuggg! Where are youuuuu?" Then he started yelling "Coweeeeeen!" Ha! Never heard him say my name before, but I guess he's heard Blake calling for me. Then he said, "Mama, it's a great day to run!" and he took off speed crawling across the floor! A couple hours later, I got my own energy back and was able to kick some laundry butt. Blake and I hung curtains, worked a little in the nursery, he cleaned the living room carpets ... ahhhh, I'm feeling much better. Nesting must be kicking in. :)

Yesterday, even though Nate and I were seriously not in the mood to drive over 2 hours, but I had planned a Spina Bifida playgroup in London, KY (eastern part of the state). Two other little boys came, along with their parents and grandmas and one sibling, and my mom and Pat from the SBAK were there too, so it was a decent little turnout. There's so little in the way of programming and services for the SB population in eastern KY, so I thought this playgroup would be a great start. Nate did show off his walking skills, and a younger little boy got to try out his walker, and us moms got to chat about preschool and orthotics. I think it was a success! I hope Nate didn't infect either of the other boys. Afterwards we had dinner with Pop and Uncle Wucas. :)

This is a big week! Wednesday evening we're heading to Athens, OH, and Thursday morning I'll defend my thesis! If you'd just stop and say a little prayer for me, I'd appreciate it very much. Then Saturday is my baby shower, and Sunday we're celebrating Nate's 3rd birthday as well as Father's Day. I'm sure I'll be in the mood to party after my thesis defense is over. (Well, let's hope so....)

Tomorrow it's back to our regular therapy, and I also have a doctor's appointment. So I guess I should be turning in.

We're sick.

Monday, Nate and I went to a luncheon that the Spina Bifida Association of Kentucky was hosting as part of a golf scramble. This is where I ate off the same fork as Nate, and he passed his germs to me. I didn't know he had germs. By that night, he had a fever. The next morning I took him to the doc. He said his ears looked fine and he didn't have strep, but his throat was really red and he had some sort of virus. Nate was pitiful. I was also starting to feel bad, so we stayed in bed together most of the day. Wednesday morning, Nate woke up crying and moaning, and he was losing his voice. Blake thought he had swine flu. :) So I called the nurse, and she suspected he had croup. I took him back to the doc, who gave him a prescription for a steroid that should make him feel better by the end of the day. I was feeling worse.

This morning, Nate woke up crying again. Blake brought him downstairs, and Nate was so upset that he flailed himself off the couch, and that just made him mad. He had absolutely no energy today. He just laid on the couch, then slept from noon-4, then laid on the couch some more, then went to bed at 7. I feel so bad for him. In the meantime, my cold has gotten worse! I am miserable! It's after 1 am and I cant sleep for the sneezing and stuffy nose. We are a mess.

What a weekend!

Nate is officially spoiled by grandparents! He had so much fun this weekend. What a lucky little boy.

On Saturday, I took him to soccer, and he surprised Coach Rob by walking over to him by himself. :) Then Memaw and GrandBob came for a visit and brought his birthday gift ... a sand and water table! Nate LOVED it. He kept saying, "I have sand ... aaaannd I have water." He got soaking wet and very sandy. Memaw also brought bubbles (aka, kid crack) and strawberries. It was Nate's idea of heaven. And she was nice enough to give him a much-needed bath afterwards. :)

Nate had so much fun that he didn't go to sleep until after 10 pm. He just laid in bed talking about his fun day. Sunday morning, we went to an early church service, gave Nate a snack, and he passed out in the truck, just as planned. By the time he woke up, we were in Sodor. :) That's where Thomas lives, for those who don't know Thomas as well as we do. We were actually in New Haven, KY, for a Day Out With Thomas ... and Grandma and Papaw.

There was a whole Thomas town made of Leggos.

This was made of Leggos too.

We ate lunch under that tree there.

All this stuff was at the Kentucky Railway Museum, where there is a model train room, and Nate loved that.

There's Thomas!

He could get on this train and ring the bell. I told him it was Donald (Thomas' friend) and he believed me. :)

He could pick out a temporary tattoo, and I loved that he picked the pink one! :)

We stood in the hot sun for a long time for the obligatory photo op.

About halfway through the day, Nate started wilting a bit. But as soon as we got him in the truck and cooled down, he went on and on about how fun it was to ride Thomas. And today he's shown everyone his tattoo: "It's pink!" he says.

The weekend was a little too much fun for me, and I went to bed about 6 pm last night!

Did it go away overnight?

No! He's still walking!!!! Whoo! I think it stuck this time! Blake and I tried it out first thing this morning after breakfast. :) Then his OT came, and soon after, one of the velcro straps on his new braces broke. Hmm. They wouldn't stay on. So I put his little braces back on him, and he continued to walk by himself! We didn't get to practice much today after that, because for the moment Nate needs to walk from one person to another and it was just me here today. We're going to see if he'll continue walking in his short braces or if I need to just get some new velcro for the taller braces.

Other than that, it was a pretty uneventful day of cleaning, laundry, and making dinner. Nate helped me make brownies (and eat them), and he thought that was really cool. :)

Nate is walking!

And I caught it on tape!

This afternoon, Dee, his PT, came over, and she said she had a pair of taller braces she wanted to try on Nate. Not because his muscles need higher braces, but she thought they might make him feel more secure when he's walking. And they just so happened to fit perfectly! I was shocked--I can barely find shoes to fit this kid, and here these special orthotics she got from another kid happened to fit him just right. While Dee was here, he walked holding onto my hand, and I felt like he was already walking faster and more stable.

Blake came home from work this afternoon for a little break, and I told Nate to show Daddy how he walks with his "magic boots" on. Blake took Nate for a little walk to the front door and back, and he could tell a difference too. So we both got in the floor, just enough apart from each other that Nate would have to take about a step on his own. He wasn't cooperating and was just giggling, but then, he just stopped in between us, not holding onto either of us, and just stood there! So we started working on it again, moving a little farther away every now and then, and he started WALKING! This went on for at least a half an hour, and Nate was taking 14 steps--he was walking clear across the living room between us! And he LOVED it. He was giggling the whole time and saying "Do it again" before he even got to one of us. See for yourself!

Okay, now the test is to see whether he will do it tomorrow! But even if he does it, this time I have proof!

WHOOO HOOO!!!!!

I finished my thesis!!! It's done, done, done!!! There was a little drama at Kinkos today when they couldn't open one of my files, but it all got worked out. They printed it all, I collated and assembled the binders, and they shipped them to my committee members. I nearly danced out of Kinkos. Thanks so much to my friend Megan who designed the brochures for FREE and then had to deal with all the drama of figuring out how to email the files over the last 3 days. Now all that's left is defending it. (Cue dramatic music.) In two weeks, Blake and Nate are heading up to Athens, Ohio with me to attend the defense, and I just hope that Nate's cuteness, my big belly, and the bagels I plan to bring will put them in such a great mood that they won't be too harsh. I honestly am so proud of this project, so there may be things that they pick at, but overall I think it's really great.

Have I explained the project on this blog? Here it is in a nutshell. When obstetricians give parents the news that their unborn baby has Spina Bifida, they usually scare them to death. OBs don't know much about SB, so they tell parents things like, "Your child will be a vegetable," "He will be mentally retarded," " She will have no quality of life," "It would be cruel to continue this pregnancy," "You baby will probably die before he makes it to birth." Um, they haven't met Nate. Or the hundreds of other kids I "know" (sometimes only online through their parents) who have SB. So I have worked with the Spina Bifida Association of Kentucky to develop an information campaign to give doctors accurate information about SB as well as tips for giving the diagnosis compassionately. This includes a "fact sheet" as well as a series of presentations. We've also developed a brochure for parents. For my thesis, I also did a literature review, survey of about 50 parents, reported the results, wrote Nate's story, and wrote a commentary of how the project went. So not only am I finishing my master's degree, I'm also doing a project that I really believe will make a difference in people's lives. This will be an actual program for the SBAK, and they plan to present it to the national Spina Bifida Association to see if they'll take it nationwide. How cool is that? My hope is that parents will be able to make more informed decisions, and many, many babies will be spared from being needlessly terminated.

Okay, enough about that for now. Today I had an OB appointment, and it went well. Georgia is measuring right on schedule, and I have gained NO weight! Whoo! (You really wouldn't believe it to look at me!) I'm far enough along now--28 weeks--that I will be starting appointments every other week instead of monthly. At 32 weeks, I'll have another ultrasound to see how this girl is growing in there. And best of all, we have scheduled a c-section date! Grandmas, get out your calendars--Miss Georgia has a birthday! Friday, July 31.

Nate had playgroup today, and he was having so much fun playing with magnetic letters that he ignored me when I came to pick him up. As we were leaving, I asked him what he did at school today. This is his new way of telling stories: "Ummmm, I pwayed with wetters. Aaannnd had a snack. Aaannnd went to da gym. Aaannnnddd...." It's hilarious. Miss Elizabeth was here when we got back, and she stayed here with Nate while I went to Kinkos and got my hair cut. She got him to take a few steps by himself, and she also took him for a walk to the end of our street and back, just holding his hand. He is getting so strong. When I got home, she was telling me about all the walking he did, and Nate looked at me and said, "I so proud of you!" He said it all evening, how proud he was. I guess Elizabeth told him that, and he knew it was good but was figuring out exactly what it meant. (Let me interject that I also say this to him, but it just hit him today. Really, I do, haha.)

Then I put Nate to bed, and we did our usual routine--read a book, sing a song, say our prayers, talk about what he's going to dream about, lights out. Well, an hour and a half later, he was still up there talking and singing, perfectly happy but not sleeping. I heard him recite the prayer I always say, which is funny cause he never says it with me, just folds his hands and closes his eyes. But I heard him say, "Dear Jesus, tank you for mama and daddy and Nate and baby Georgie. We wuv you. Amen." Awww! The last couple of days, I've heard him randomly chanting "Mama, Daddy, Nate, Baby Georgie." And I say, "Yes, that's our family!" I'm hoping he's used to at least the idea of Georgia by the time she gets here.

Anyway, it's 11 pm, and Nate is still awake, now in our bed watching TV with Blake. This should be an interesting night!