Nate's back has puffed out again. Just like last time before he needed surgery again. It happened last Wednesday, and I sent a photo to neurosurgery. Dr. Tulipan said it was fine unless he was having symptoms (headaches), but I should feel free to bring him in if I thought I needed to.
Sunday evening I was working with Nate and laid him down on his back. He screamed in pain at his back, and immediately grabbed his forehead. That scared me. Then yesterday I realized that Nate is supposed to go back to school next week, and he still has this hump on his back. I've named it Clive. Clive freaks me out.
I called neurosurgery again and asked if we could move up his appointment. They said Dr. T had an opening today, so I took it. This morning, twice when Nate laid on his back he got headaches.
Dr. T said it didn't look terrible to him, but it's pretty obvious it's a spinal fluid leak again. If it was the first time this happened, he'd do exactly what he did last time--take him to the operating room to try to close it again. But he did the best he could trying to close it last time, and there's no reason to think that would work this time.
He said it seems this problem is caused by Nate's mild hydrocephalus, which didn't need to be shunted when he was a baby. There is pressure pushing that spinal fluid out of whatever hole it could find.
So the game plan is to have Nate on pretty strict bedrest for two more weeks (no returning to school anytime soon) and return to clinic as we were originally scheduled on Oct. 24. If it still looks the same or worse, we need to consider the shunt option.
Why a shunt? That would regulate the pressure of the spinal fluid, so it wouldn't be forcing its way out of the back. Dr. T is confident that would work, but he wants to give it a couple more weeks to heal on its own.
I asked about a spinal shunt, and he said a shunt in the brain would be much more effective, especially considering Nate's anatomy, which he is very familiar with now after seeing his insides 3 times now.
I also asked about another procedure called the Endoscopic Third Ventriculostomy, or ETV. He told me, as he did when Nate was a baby and we were having this conversation, that he does not do the ETV. He said he has done it once in a lab, and he would not be the one to ask to do this. I told him I had met Dr. Warf from Boston Childrens at the Spina Bifida National Conference, and he said, "Yes, I know Ben." Dr. Warf is pretty widely known as the best in the world at this procedure, which involves drilling a hole in the 3rd ventrical of the brain for the fluid to drain that way instead of inserting a shunt. Dr. Warf is a big believer in this treatment, and if it is successful, you don't have to worry about a shunt malfunction, ever. He offered to help us get in contact with Dr. Warf, whether that would mean traveling to Boston or talking to him remotely, about whether that would even be a viable option for Nate's particular scenario. I don't know if we would go this route, but you know me, I have to weigh all the options.
Dr. T did say that for a child Nate's age (in comparison with a baby), a shunt has a very low probability of malfunctioning. Plus, he would only need it for 3 or 4 months to give his back time to heal. He said at that time he could even remove the shunt. But really that would be an unneccessary surgery and we would most likely just leave it.
I know what many of you are thinking--Colleen, a shunt is no big deal, why are you making this into something bigger than it is? Yes, after five years of no shunt, I would be very disappointed to have to do this very permanent solution to a temporary problem. But obviously I'm not going to let my stubborness get in the way of what Nate needs. At this point, I want whatever it takes for Clive to go away.
So, I'm asking for people to pray for Nate over the next 20 days, that the swelling will go down and he will not need another surgery. But if the swelling doesn't go down, that God will give us the wisdom we need to make the right decision for Nate.
10 comments:
I know this feeling, it makes my stomach turn and my heart ache for you. It is so strange how finding out about SB is one thing but it is so much harder to swallow the whole shunt issue, especially in this scenario, where it may be temporary. My doctor didn't listen to my gut feelings, she didn't give me another week, she didn't even give it one week. I am so happy that you and your doctor have this great relationship. I cannot fathom getting this news after 5 years I really can't. You are an amazing woman Colleen, and Nate certainly is Nate the Great. First and foremost I pray that Clive gets the heck out of there, that Nate heals and no more shunt talk. I will also pray for you, Nate and the Doctors.
much love and many prayers!
You guys are in our prayers!
I am a grandmother to a precious baby grandson with spina bifida. My heart has now been touched by these precious children. I will be praying for Nate and for all of you.
Thank you for all you do to encourage mothers of children who are diagnosed with spina bifida. I know the spina bifida board has been an encouragement and help to my daughter.
God bless you. Ellen
Praying for you guys and sending you a hug!
Our prayers are with your beautiful family Colleen. Annabelle has both the shunt and 3rd vent., and we haven't had any problems since the 3rdV. But ANY surgery is a big deal to Mommy - and that's for sure! Clive needs to GO AWAY!
Praying!
Oh, hun! As much as we all say shunts are no big deal, from the place you guys are standing - it's a big deal!! I'm really interested in hearing what the other doctor has to say about the shunt alternative. All I've heard is that it is not recommended for younger babies. I hope most of all that the next few weeks prove to be very healing, but if that's not the case then I hope you get enough information to face this next hurdle with the strength and grace that you've faced every other one. I'll be praying for you guys.
Okay, I will certainly be adding this to my prayers!!! I hope and pray Clive goes away and it will resolve on its own. You have always been so good at knowing what to do for Nate and relying on God to guide you...I am sure you will do the same again and that you will make the best possible decision in this difficult situation. I don't blame you for not wanting a shunt after 5 years - I'd be feeling the same way. Please continue to keep us updated, I am thinking about you!
I'm sorry to hear Nate and your family are going through this. The no big deal thing is all good - but it's still super hard to face when it is your kid. I hope it doesn't come to that, but if it does, I pray for wisdom and clarity for you as you decide on Nate's behalf.
Just wanted you to know that we are still keeping Nate and your family close to our hearts.
Big hugs from CA
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